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3 Things to Measure Your Life Against
“The unexamined life is not worth living.” Socrates I was out on a sailboat, a substantial distance from shore, and found myself wondering about getting back in the dark. It gets pitch black out t…
Books for the Summer
Do you have your summer books stacked and ready to read? I do. I typically go into the summer with an ambitious pile of books to read that usually carry over into the fall and the end of the year. For…
On March 2, Stephen Curry of the Golden State Warriors sprained his ankle for the third time this season. On March 8, he sprained it again. On March 14, he turned 30. Any connection? When you’re in …
4 Metrics of Childrearing
A recent conversation with a friend about business recruiting actually highlighted a couple of parenting insights. I was meeting with a CEO who was evaluating his internship program. In determining wh…
Watch Out For Snowballs
He could have told the truth the first time a reporter asked the question. He had multiple chances. He could have come clean during his famous Larry King interview. He could have owned up when a forme…
“Fill ‘er up!”—Parkinson’s Law and Your Organization
If you wait until the last minute to do something, it’ll only take a minute to do. But what if you have a month to do something? Will it take a month? Parkinson’s Law says yes. “Work expands to …
Do You Prefer a Telescope or a Stethoscope?
I spent the day recently with a young CEO client. Great leader. Great company. Big future. One of our topics on this particular day was his leadership team. During our conversation, I gave him a chall…
7 Characteristics of a Great Manager
As I’ve outlined elsewhere, managers drive results and deliver outcomes through the skillsets of others. That may sound manipulative, but the best managers are coaches, not manipulators. Accordingly…
Enterprise vs Entrepreneurial: What Kind of Leader are You?
Let me ask you a few questions: Do you think most organizations need an enterprise leader or an entrepreneurial leader? Are you more wired as an enterprise leader or an entrepreneurial leader? What ki…
Turning 40: The Old Age of Youth
There’s an imaginary line that runs along the Rocky Mountains and from time to time, it’s marked by signs like this one: Every drop of rain that falls on the right side of the sign ends up in the …
How to Add More Time to Your Work Day
Delegation can be tough. It’s gut-wrenching to give up decisions or projects you care strongly about, and then it’s doubly gut-wrenching when it goes wrong. See what happens when one city manager …
The 4 Most Important Voices for a Senior Leader
You’ve heard the phrase “I’ve got your back.” But what about “I’ve got your ear”? Doesn’t have quite the same ring to it, does it? It’s a big deal for the senior leader though. For t…
How do You Get Your Toddler to Sleep?
Have you ever tried to convince a toddler to go to sleep? It’s been a while for me. If you haven’t experienced this unique privilege, cue up the above video to the 5:20 mark and listen to Jim Gaff…
A Quick Guide for First Time Managers
“You’ve really done well here. We’d like to offer you the position of manager.” Or co-manager. It’s an exciting day! Your successes have been recognized and rewarded with extra responsibilit…
What Type of Contributor Are You?
In early June, Lincoln Riley got a new job. One of the most powerful, most storied, and most profitable college football programs in the country turned the reins over to 33-year-old Riley, who immedia…
What’s Your Clout Category?
The best boxing movie ever made is…(drumroll please)… Cinderella Man. You might have thought I was going to say Rocky (or perhaps Rocky II, III, IV, V, or VI), but as much as I love a good Rocky B…
What Are You Reading This Summer?
Do you have your summer books stacked and ready for the beach? I do. I typically go into the summer with an ambitious pile of books that usually slide into the fall and the end of the year. For my ent…
Before Changing Jobs, Consider These Three Transitions.
ESPN does many things well. They’re the best in the business when it comes to delivering daily highlights, news, and expert analysis. They’ve got the best college sports coverage, and with the lau…
Get Over Yourself – A Guide to Being a Thoughtful Leader
Spent and focused. Those two words describe me in an airport on a recent trip back home. Traveling home means I’ve spent the past 24-48 hours in intense meetings, problem-solving big issues with cli…
Is Change Really Possible?
Albert Einstein supposedly said, “If you always do what you always did, you will always get what you always got.” I say that kind of thing to my clients all the time. Most of my coaching work incl…
Four Guiding Principles of Relationships
The most important single ingredient in the formula of success is knowing how to get along with people, President Theodore Roosevelt once said. NASA has said the outlier of all space missions is the…
Guest Post: The Reluctant Leader
Four random times this year I am asking a friend to guest write on my blog. I asked them because I think they are great thinkers as well as great writers. They will write an original article connected…
Mentoring in the Business World and Beyond
I’m not sure what the legendary basketball coach John Wooden would think about this, but here is one humorous approach to mentoring younger talent. Ron Swanson=questionable mentor. The need for effe…
The Founder’s Dilemma—Being King or Being Rich
Do you want to be king or do you want to be rich? That, according to Noam Wasserman, is the chief question among The Founder’s Dilemma. (If you don’t want to read the book, you can see his 2008 ar…
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